Feature: change the `out_mat_l` to use real spherical harmonics

[kirk0830]

Background

Present implementation employs the relationship between ladder operator on complex harmonics, this is not compatible with other functionalities of ABACUS.

Describe the solution you'd like

I will make the implementation consistent with other functionalities that only consider the real spherical harmonics

Task list only for developers

• Notice possible changes of behavior
• Explain the changes of codes in core modules of ESolver, HSolver, ElecState, Hamilt, Operator or Psi

Notice Possible Changes of Behavior (Reminder only for developers)

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Notice any changes of core modules (Reminder only for developers)

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Notice Possible Changes of Core Modules (Reminder only for developers)

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Additional Context

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Task list for Issue attackers (only for developers)

• Review and understand the proposed feature and its importance.
• Research on the existing solutions and relevant research articles/resources.
• Discuss with the team to evaluate the feasibility of implementing the feature.
• Create a design document outlining the proposed solution and implementation details.
• Get feedback from the team on the design document.
• Develop the feature following the agreed design.
• Write unit tests and integration tests for the feature.
• Update the documentation to include the new feature.
• Perform code review and address any issues.
• Merge the feature into the main branch.
• Monitor for any issues or bugs reported by users after the feature is released.
• Address any issues or bugs reported by users and continuously improve the feature.