Add device type validation in aoti_torch_create_tensor_from_blob_v2

[larryliu0820]

Validate that the data pointer location matches the requested device_type.
This prevents silent data corruption when tensors are created with
mismatched data pointer and device type.

Changes:

• Add cudaPointerGetAttributes check to verify data pointer location
• Error out if CPU data is provided but CUDA device is requested
• Error out if CUDA data is provided but CPU device is requested
• Add unit tests for device type mismatch scenarios

[larryliu0820]

Stack from ghstack (oldest at bottom):

• Custom op to update cache for torch.cond #16366
• Add aoti_torch_item_bool and aoti_torch_assign_tensors_out shims #16345
• -> Add device type validation in aoti_torch_create_tensor_from_blob_v2 #16344

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• pull / test-samsung-models-linux / linux-job (gh)
  test_inception_v3_fp16

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• pull / android / run-emulator (gh) (#16137)
  Timeout waiting for emulator to boot.

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[Gasoonjia]

Thanks for adding the support and the tests!